A Key to Understanding Women
This is something that it took me years of “research” to finally understand. Here it is:
Judge a women based on how she behaves, not on how she looks.
This accomplishes at least two important things. First, it sets you apart from all the other men chasing her. A “hot” girl has legions of men doing her bidding. She’ll notice a guy who doesn’t grant her special treatment. She’ll respect you for your boundaries, EVEN IF SHE DISMISSES YOU AS NOT USEFUL TO HER. Of course, you can bend to her whims, but you’ll be in a lower status category immediately. Such an unequal pairing is not sustainable.
Secondly, it’s how a woman behaves (her character) that determines if you’ll be happy with her, not how she looks (which fade, anyhow).
Of course, you want all women you date to meet your physical standards so you can have enjoyable sexual relations with them, but in a partnership it’s the behavior of the girl that matters. To our parent’s generation this would seem like obvious advice, but for some reason I feel people 30 and under (generally speaking) are infatuated by appearance. In my experience, a hot girl loses 80% of her appeal after I fuck her, unless she’s got strong character. Keep those girls for casual sex and develop a partnership and trust with an attractive woman of substance.
What you said about the 80% decrease in appeal after fucking is SO true! And I thought I was the only one…
Does this system work on black chicks?
Sorting women, shoot, sorting all people in your life by character and value is a lesson that is rewarding when finally taken to heart.
This is such great advice, Paul. I can’t count how many times I’ve assumed a woman would be bitchy because of how sexy she was dressed, and she turned out to be nice. Or, how many times I thought a woman would be really nice because of how plain she was dressed and she turned out to be a total bitch. Talking to them and seeing how they act is the only way to find out.
Great tip on screening girls.
Paul,
You are truly brilliant!
Your female education for men is equivalent to learning how to fish from the best fisherman.
That’s all I have to say.
Thank you.
Yep, it is golden advice, for sure!…”Don’t judge a book by It’s cover” : )
Even at 60 my PUA friends are still learning! For a long term relationship, make sure the women is capable of using logic and reason. If she is not, RUN, RUN, RUN before she burns you!!! Look for evidence of logic in her past decisions, her major in college, and everything. Most women are psycho! BEWARE!!!
Also search (yes search everything) for any medication she may be on. Get off your a_ _ and find out what it is prescribed for. Do your research now, not after the problems start!
I have a whole list of cautions, but these two are the big ones.
Paul i think if you write a couple of novels i think you can make it to hollywood man.
Paul so much respect for you man, I don’t know how to thank you enough for the confidants I am building meeting more and more girls. There so many questions I still have if you read this message please send me your number on my email, I need your advice. I really like to meet up to. I would mind taking trip all the way from Canada to learn from you.
Sincerely
Focus
I mean wouldnt mind lol
Hi Paul,
Great advice, but don’t you think that unfortunately a lot of hot girls have a bitchy behavior or use tests ?
All the girls that go and talk to me or that I talk to are not reliable : hot, young…but evasive, gamey, flirty…
Once you show a bit of sincerity, they’re gone.
Any chick loses their physical aura whether they are smoking hot or average after you have fucked them. No doubt about it and invariably, that is when their personality, intelligence, and interests can take over.
I don’t know if you noted it but I believe it is essentially true that everything a man is indoctrinated to believe about women via pop culture, movies, etc. is counterintuitive to how the game actually works. Show little respect, introduce sex or that you are a man who just bangs women and you will be more successful. I say this b/c I used to be relatively nice guy and probably prevented me from sleeping with some women I would have liked to get in the sack. Assert yourself sexually from the get go, show tha you are a bit of a douche and she will likely be more interested. Do not supplicate. Supplication is death and will condemn you to the “friend zone” which is the equivalent of being the girl’s gay friend or brother. Look forward to seeing more insight from all you players out there! Keep ‘em coming!