If you’d told me a year ago that dressing like a rocker would really help with all kinds of women, I’d have been skeptical… But, the proof, as they say, is in the pudding…

Because of my line of work and the fact that I don’t need to shave or wear a suit for work, I’m able to wear some outrageous and fun clothes…

Lately, I’ve been rocking a pair of TOM FORD Shelby brown aviators, leather-wrapped. A green Dolce & Gabbana leather jacket, and Diesel jeans. Yesterday I bought a cheap Chinese polyester fedora/bowler’s hat. Throw it all together, and it’s a good look…

The beauty of it (aside from the fact that it’s just fun to rock cool threads…) is that women eat it up. It’s like catnip. I don’t have to do much, and they show interest.

This is similar to the seduction advice of “peacocking” – the only difference being that I hope to achieve an element “cool,” that will draw women in, whereas some of those other folks seem like participants in a silly circus act.

Cool clothes and fashion – including tattoos, of which I have none – can do a lot of the heavy lifting for you. This works well for a guy who may be a bit shy or wants to go out into the “field” with an advantage. Don’t get me wrong, though.  Clothes can only take you so far. I have a friend who has sex with tons of girls and he dresses very blandly. But he’s got solid “I don’t take shit from anyone” game.

The reason for female attraction to unique style is two-fold:

1) It indicates that the man has strong resources of some sort (intellectual, financial, social or character) because he can risk stepping outside of the group. It’s the same reason that women are physically attracted to rebels (meaning that they get w*t at he sight of James Dean): if a man has enough confidence to risk ostracism from his peers for being “different” then he must have some sort of inner strength. She wants to get to know what it is…

2) I’m stealing this from The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar: if you strip down both sexes and shave their heads, man and woman are fairly indistinguishable. Sure, our sex organs are different, and women have breasts, but have you ever wondered why so many females are “beautiful,” whereas men are rarely so becoming? Statistically, it’s impossible that there’s any difference in objective physical health/robustness. What’s going on here? Well, women have learned and been inculcated by society to adopt practices that “trick” men. They grow their hair long, they depilate, they wear ornaments (jewelry) and they paint their faces every day: mascara, foundation, eyeliner, lipstick. All of this creates a sense of “other” to which man is attracted.

Imagine 20,000 B.C. when the females with short hair and hairy legs and pits were squatting by the fire mashing yucca plant. They were unsightly and not that much different than men. Picture it for a second – you wouldn’t want that thing in your bed! Now picture a Playboy Playmate. See the difference? As heterosexual men, we’re attracted to what we’re not.

So, when a rock star grows his hair long, paints his nails, and wears eyeliner he communicates a message to women: I’m different, somewhere between you and all those other men – Come find out more about me!

That scrambles a woman’s radar and she, always the curious feline, will come closer to sniff it out…